A friend in need

For as long as I can remember, I have never really allowed myself to need anyone.  My childhood, though loving, revolved very much around the emotional state of one person in it – someone that i could rely… Read More

The ghosts of Christmas past

On the 11th of December, I “celebrated” my “cancerversary”, a year since diagnosis. It is a course a moment that  will be burned into my memory forever.  As for some of the following weeks, some of it was… Read More

Once more, with feeling

It’s just (unlike me) going to be a short post tonight, to let all of you who don’t know me in Facebook land or real life, know what happened today. To cut a long story short, it’s was… Read More

Learning to fly

A friend just posted this in a bowel cancer forum that I frequent, and it’s perfect: “I have come to accept the feeling of not knowing where I am going. And I have trained myself to love it…. Read More